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Aug 29, 2018

It’s no secret that Danny and Jill’s marriages ended after they left when their spouses had affairs… but what if they had stayed? The girls interview their good friend, Shanna Mota, who has also experienced spousal infidelity, but with a vastly different outcome. In this vulnerable and raw episode, Shanna talks about why she didn’t leave, how she moved past the hurt, and why she doesn’t feel like a doormat for staying.




Shanna’s history & the myth of “easy” relationships [1:52]

Finding out, how things changed [6:47]

Making the decision to stay [16:58]

The possibility of being shamed by others [22:36]

Getting over the anger [24:22]

Monogamy post-affair [27:38]

Forging a stronger connection through adversity [29:53]

Passing on advice & a commitment to growth [31:14]

Dealing with the moments on uncertainty [37:43]

Am I a doormat for staying? [41:05]


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